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Posted 29 March 2012 - 12:03 PM

I was thinking to myself, sometimes I like to listen to my own tracks often after I´ve finished them, just listen on my own, just to remind myself of how nice they sound, because even though you cannot ever really be completely satisfied with your own work, there is always something you must be proud of, right?
Just wondering if anyone else does this or if it´s just me being weird..

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 12:06 PM

No, and it kicks ass when you're really digging it. One of my favorite feelings. Inhale dem farts deep!!!

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 12:06 PM

Not weird at all. Why produce something that you wouldn't enjoy listening to yourself?

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 12:10 PM

I was thinking to myself, sometimes I like to listen to my own tracks often after I´ve finished them, just listen on my own, just to remind myself of how nice they sound, because even though you cannot ever really be completely satisfied with your own work, there is always something you must be proud of, right?
Just wondering if anyone else does this or if it´s just me being weird..

I do the same every week or so. Throw a playlist of my latest creations together and lay back and enjoy em.

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 12:10 PM

Not weird at all. Why produce something that you wouldn't enjoy listening to yourself?

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This pretty much sums it up.
I do know what you know though. Sometimes I listen to them with the purpose of finding things to improve. Other times I merely listen to them, think about how awesome they are and feel amazing for a moment. A rare feeling for me though.

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 12:12 PM

It would be more weird if you didn't listen to your own stuff all the time. the fact that you want to listen to it means that you made some good stuff

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 12:21 PM

My own music is probably my favourite music. Of course I don't mean it's objectively the best out of everything I've ever heard, but naturally it exactly fits the specifics of the sort of things I wanna hear (at least for a while after I make it).

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 12:24 PM

I add them into itunes then I think of a cover artwork and take them with me.

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 12:26 PM

My own music is probably my favourite music.


I can kind of recall Aphex Twin saying something like that ;)

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 12:40 PM

If it's wrong I don't wanna be right

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 12:41 PM

according to fashionable opinion it's narcissistic to be a white man

don't worry about the manipulations that are going on in world culture in order to bring about a twisted revolution
embrace the kaiser and god
listen to your own music
fuck idm (fake genre)

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 12:46 PM

I listen to my own stuff more than anything else but only things I'm working on or recently completed. Its a vital part of the process and if you listen to something enough times you will begin to like it and then its easy to convince yourself that you're not a totally useless cunt.

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 01:01 PM

My feeling has always been, if you don't like listening to your own music, why should I listen to it?

The exception being musicians who record a few tracks a year and spend months of studio time on each one - then I can see being sick of the tracks. For instance Scott Walker would spend ages and ages on each song, and then listen to the finished product once or twice and then never listen to it again.

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 01:07 PM

making something i'll want to listen to is 95% of the reason i make music.

i'm pretty bad at sharing music, but i'll keep working on tracks every day of my life even if nobody else hears them. it's what makes me happy, and stepping back and listening to what i've made is the ultimate culmination of that happiness.

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 02:18 PM

hope this gets not too offtopic and is not too egocentric.
I am convinced that I have good taste for music, I know if somethings good, I don't need anyone to tell me if somethings good or not, if its ok to listen to it or not.
But judging my own stuff is hard for me. Its something like being in love.
If I have a fresh tune, I listen to it often. I love it, but the more I listen to it, the uglier it gets.I begin to see the imperfections, the mistakes.
In the end its all shit. Also I don't get much feedback if I post a tune from time to time so I assume I suck (as the conformist I am), but by the end of the day it doesn't matter. I couldn't stop making tunes.
I love it, I love to listen to my shit, but it brings me down often enough, the euphoria I get is not for free.
but yeah its ok to listen to your own shit :cat:

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 02:20 PM

How do you expect to impress anyone, if you cant impress yourself?

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 02:36 PM

The exception being musicians who record a few tracks a year and spend months of studio time on each one - then I can see being sick of the tracks.

Yeah this happens to me sometimes when I spend ages on a song getting all the bits just so, & by the end of it I've got the thing so engrained in my mind I've pretty much memorized every LFO sweep & delay fade throughout & listening to it again doesn't bring any fresh satisfaction.

Of course this wears off if I leave it sitting long enough so it's no longer so fresh in my head.

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 02:40 PM

If it's wrong I don't wanna be right

according to fashionable opinion it's narcissistic to be a white man

don't worry about the manipulations that are going on in world culture in order to bring about a twisted revolution
embrace the kaiser and god
listen to your own music
fuck idm (fake genre)

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 02:41 PM

I love listening to the music I make, just like I love playing an instrument by myself.

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 02:45 PM

A healthy amount of narcissism is awesome.

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 03:00 PM

Probably 95% of my listening ot music is my own tracks lol.

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 03:27 PM

hope this gets not too offtopic and is not too egocentric.
I am convinced that I have good taste for music, I know if somethings good, I don't need anyone to tell me if somethings good or not, if its ok to listen to it or not.
But judging my own stuff is hard for me. Its something like being in love.
If I have a fresh tune, I listen to it often. I love it, but the more I listen to it, the uglier it gets.I begin to see the imperfections, the mistakes.
In the end its all shit. Also I don't get much feedback if I post a tune from time to time so I assume I suck (as the conformist I am), but by the end of the day it doesn't matter. I couldn't stop making tunes.
I love it, I love to listen to my shit, but it brings me down often enough, the euphoria I get is not for free.
but yeah its ok to listen to your own shit :cat:


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Posted 29 March 2012 - 05:34 PM

My feeling has always been, if you don't like listening to your own music, why should I listen to it?

The exception being musicians who record a few tracks a year and spend months of studio time on each one - then I can see being sick of the tracks. For instance Scott Walker would spend ages and ages on each song, and then listen to the finished product once or twice and then never listen to it again.

bit of a challenge though, because if you spent months and months on something and genuinely STILL loved it in yourself and knew that it'd age well then that's the standard :spiteful:
only put releases out that you're really proud of and bore very little from (keeps it strictly quality).

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 07:13 PM

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Posted 29 March 2012 - 07:23 PM

I listen to my own music more than anything else. That's why I made it, cause it's awesome and needs to be listened to.