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why don't more women 'get' it?


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#1 Ifeelspace

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Posted 11 May 2012 - 02:37 PM

Firstly, I have absolutely zero stats to back up this, but my feeling is that most women simply don't 'get' idm, or electronic music in general. And it's not just on the listening side, but the production side too. 99% of producers and listeners seem to be male.

Have any of you found it ever so slightly frustrating that the lady in your life does not appreciate the music you cherish in the same way that you do?

I realise there are female posters here who love the idmz, I'm not having a dig in general, just curious as to why it's so male-oriented.

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Posted 11 May 2012 - 02:44 PM

I predict that this thread will only need a couple of hours for you drunk friday nighters to get it to the point where i have to close it.

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Posted 11 May 2012 - 02:44 PM

say idmz one more time

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Posted 11 May 2012 - 02:45 PM

We Are The Patriachy Makers

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Posted 11 May 2012 - 02:46 PM

the reason is:
girls just wanna have fun
it's all they really want
to have fun
oh ae pls u kno u still numbah 1
but girls they wanna haz fun

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Posted 11 May 2012 - 02:47 PM

Its a brotherhood thing. When AFX invented IDM he was sort of an outcast/recluse, he wasn't into women he was into male bonding and stuff like that. He would gather all his male friends and play music for them, he would also wrestle them naked in the rain to the sounds of Autechre's windwind.


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All joking aside, i don't know where are you getting that "99%", i have been to loads of "IDM" gigs and there were plenty of ladies.

Edited by YO303, 11 May 2012 - 02:48 PM.


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Posted 11 May 2012 - 02:49 PM

If i say it three times whilst looking in the mirror, will the aphex appear?

IDMz
IDMz
IDMz

Hell, apologies if this thread is a pain in your azz, i'm just curious. Bugs the shit outta me that most women i know don't seem to enjoy listening to electronic music

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Posted 11 May 2012 - 02:50 PM

Hell, apologies if this thread is a pain in your azz, i'm just curious. Bugs the shit outta me that most women i know don't seem to enjoy listening to electronic music


that's because your mom is the only lady you know

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Edited by ruiagnelo, 11 May 2012 - 02:50 PM.


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Posted 11 May 2012 - 02:50 PM

Maybe they don't want to go to "IDM" gigs with you because you look like a rapist.

Edited by YO303, 11 May 2012 - 02:51 PM.


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Posted 11 May 2012 - 02:51 PM

Women have smaller bodies so they also have smaller brains.

Edited by Kanakori, 11 May 2012 - 02:53 PM.


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Posted 11 May 2012 - 02:52 PM

I made a decision to laugh rather than be offended by your comments. Because i agree, i do look somewhat like rap artist

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Posted 11 May 2012 - 02:52 PM

And the frontal lobe is not as developped so it's only natural that they can't appreciate one of the most advanced art forms.

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Posted 11 May 2012 - 02:53 PM

Women have smaller bodies, so they do have smaller brains too.


gay marriage and women/idm threads in a single week

watmm -> always in the forefront of social discussion

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Posted 11 May 2012 - 02:56 PM

scroti

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Posted 11 May 2012 - 03:00 PM

My girlfriend doesn't listen to anything but "IDM".

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Posted 11 May 2012 - 03:01 PM

My girlfriend doesn't listen to anything but "IDM".


I would imagine in that cold dark cellar, tied to that chair, it would be pretty hard for her not to

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Posted 11 May 2012 - 03:03 PM


My girlfriend doesn't listen to anything but "IDM".


I would imagine in that cold dark cellar, tied to that chair, it would be pretty hard for her not to


It's called a cold room.

I don't have a cellar.

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Posted 11 May 2012 - 03:03 PM

If this board proves anything with all its "girls" threads. Its not that women dont get IDM, its that you dont get women.

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Posted 11 May 2012 - 03:05 PM

If this board proves anything with all its "girls" threads. Its not that women dont get IDM, its that you dont get women.


and IDM as well

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Posted 11 May 2012 - 03:05 PM

If this board proves anything with all its "girls" threads. Its not that women dont get IDM, its that you dont get women.


Is that a quote from the sisterhood of the traveling pants?

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Posted 11 May 2012 - 03:06 PM

Alot of girls that like IDM have mental problems of some sort. I know some that are completely normal but they're also taken. That's why I'll end my life alone with a right hand bigger than my torso.

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Posted 11 May 2012 - 03:07 PM

Alot of girls that like IDM have mental problems of some sort. I know some that are completely normal but they're also taken. That's why I'll end my life alone with a right hand bigger than my torso.


idm, women
you need to make a decision
can't have both

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Posted 11 May 2012 - 03:08 PM

ruiagnelo, no offence mate, but please bugger off

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Posted 11 May 2012 - 03:10 PM

ruiagnelo, no offence mate, but please bugger off


no offense taken

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Posted 11 May 2012 - 03:13 PM

Maybe I should just turn gay..