J3FF3R00 Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 Dude. I don't know if i missed something, but neither one of you should be thinking suicidal thoughts. I know I have no clue what either of you guys are going through, but I do know that you guys sound like good people. Good people have people in their lives that care very deeply for them. This is a scary thing for both of you to be going through. Change is always scary. I'm going through a big, scary, depressing change at the moment (moving from NYC to LA) and its been really hard on me. Despite how painful its been, I do know that it's a new beginning, over all else. With every beginning, there is a possibility for something truly amazing. You guys will be fine. This is definitely all for the best, for the both of you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jules Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 moon you should try not to get overly depressed that you are not wanted. he is gay and you are a woman. not even muffins could change that. try not to blame yourself for biology. bears or dogs aren't attracted to you either. and if you are this depressed now, what would you do to your family by killing yourself? Sounds like it's time for psychological help a strap on. this got a hearty lol from me reverse burn-around! loooooooooooool Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BCM Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 Can you drink a bottle of wine in 2 minutes because I can. The truth is he's mad at me for crying again. I've tried not to I swear. I don't think I can get any smaller and still exist. I'm trying to be good and let go. I've gone mad. The truth is I'm not wanted and I never have been. And now he doesn't even like me because I'm broken. I'm.sorry . I shouldn't be here. I told you I've gone mad right? He hates anyone who makes him feel guilty... I've tried so hard to be a good wife and make him happy. I made muffins for his breakfast and done the laundry and made dinner and tried not to complain. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I wish I were stronger. I was braver once I promise. I'm sorry. Don't read this. I've gone mad tonight. I saw his secret pictures... If I could be better I would. I'm sorry. please? Ophelia has nothing on me tonight... this post makes me very sad. please don't beat yourself up or say sorry any more. you have done nothing wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaarg Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 I recommend watching a documentary about animals. Nice jungle ones, like bbc documentaries. It shows you how absurd human constructs are in lots of ways and might settle you (both) a bit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rstark Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 Keltoi, avatar change is by request only. Pic is of one of the polyester/cellulose tissues I use to wipe blanks before they're dipped in paint... creative Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest moonchild Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 Thank you. The truth is that is the very bottom of me. The darkest I get. I've had a nap and am much safer now. You are all right. I know it isn't my fault. So no more booze for a goodish long while. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest kineaesth Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 im starting to not believe any of this shit.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goDel Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 Moon, you could say you've almost succeeded in doing the impossible. Turning a gay guy straight. If I were you I'd see a couple of seasons of the Simpsons to get your mind off of it. Time heals everything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BCM Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 woah, that's fucking harsh lump. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rixxx Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lumpenprol Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 sorry couldn't help myself. It's just getting a bit out of hand with all the rending of clothing, self-flaggelation and ullulating. But I suppose the more graceful thing would have been to just stop reading there's no way she didn't have strong suspicions about his orientation tho Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Plum Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goDel Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 love makes blind sometimes, lumpy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Plum Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 hands like facehuggers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lumpenprol Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 erm...imo they were both "playing house." I say this in the least judgmental way possible, as I currently play house with a 20 yr old Chinese girl. But at least I know that's what I'm doing. Time to stop playing house and both of them can get what they need, ie., red-blooded beefcake stud. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rixxx Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 who on earth would seriously say all this stuff on watmm!? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goDel Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 being married is playing house nowadays? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lumpenprol Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 right, and that. It's pretty absurd. [edit: to rixxx] [goDel]: it is if your partner doesn't share your sexual orientation. Look, when I was a kid, the neighbor's daughter used to dress up her dog in baby clothes and sit it down at the table etc. It actually ended up making the dog mental, but it didn't make it a human. Some people (mostly women) continue to do this to others - even taking it to marriage - ignoring all the signs that some shit ain't right. It must suck to be sure but...well I have nothing more to add, I'll just come off as more of a dick. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BCM Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 who on earth would seriously say all this stuff on watmm!? i know yeah, but i guess somebody desperate? i'm hoping this is not all some kind of massive joke...doesn't seem that way from what i've read. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YEK Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 i thought the gays and women are supposed to get along. like it's in their genetics.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Babar Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 love makes blind sometimes, lumpy. blinds make love sometimes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Mirezzi Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 assholeness on watmm was originally intended to scare off the idiots too dumb to see through it. Then the assholes got banned and the idiots took over the asylum... This, essentially, is 2011 era WATMM. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneToThirtySix Posted November 13, 2011 Author Share Posted November 13, 2011 who on earth would seriously say all this stuff on watmm!? *raises hand* i know yeah, but i guess somebody desperate? i'm hoping this is not all some kind of massive joke...doesn't seem that way from what i've read. I didn't start this thread to convince people of anything, and I'm not about to post a picture of me smiling, giving a thumbs up while looking at gay porn and my wife cries in the background. This has been the most devastating thing I could have done to her, and all my observances of social convention are useless now. I've taken her life, her vows, her love, and her name, and now we are both without history. I don't know who wouldn't be at least a little suicidal after that. If that seems unreal to you, it's probably because we aren't dealing with it very fucking well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest disparaissant Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 i keep trying to think of something nice to say being that i was in a similar position but goddamn you two seem kind of crazy to begin with so yep. harsh. but fuuuuuuck go get help. if you are literally pulling handfuls of aspiring out of her hands you don't need to "look into mental health coverage next week' date='" you need help [i']now[/i]. stop telling the internet how pathetic you are and fucking do something about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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