communication

[chenGOD]

I'm interested in developing artificial scenarios for couples and friends to act out together as a way to therapeutically release emotional contractions and establish feelings of love, curiosity and openness for each other. It's hard for many people to relate what's happening inside of them using spoken language. Normally, to relate to a person, before you get to fuck them and love them, you need to put an object between yourself and she. This can also apply to friends, but friends come easy. Anyway, you then relate to each other by relating to an object, or topic of conversation, that you've agreed upon. One person has a go, points at the object, says some things about it, and then the other does the same, and somehow you start to connect by doing that for a while with many different objects. But my feeling is that it's not what you actually talk about, but the energy that's flowing out of you while you're talking which establishes the connection. So my question is, how effective is talking for understanding the energy that's flowing between you? I'd say it's fucking shite! A lot of people aren't good at talking, especially in certain scenarios. I, for example, cannot for the life of me talk to a beautiful woman. I suspect the reasons are MuLti, one being that there's nothing interesting to talk about, the other being that I'm subconsciously wayyy too focused on Getting something from her. So I can't really relate to my own words. There's a feeling of disconnection from my authenticity. If you can't relate to your own presentation of yourself, which is your medium for connecting to the other person, you probably aren't going to get pussy. That's a problem.

 

I'd like to go on a silent date with someone, where we meet up, hug, eat dinner and watch each other eat dinner, hug again, go to a park and roll over each other for twenty minutes, lay around, then go home. Many people seem to be afraid or don't know how to involve their bodies in communication. I'd like to communicate more using my body, but can't really do that in conversation. Maybe I am just very horny right now. Anyway... alternatives to conventional dialoguing to connect with people?

 

And I do feel that once you're in a relationship, maybe up until the age of 22 or 23, half the shit you talk about is your drama as a couple, which is the lifeblood for your stupid relationship. the other half can be fun and interesting. just depends on your partner and if he/she is intelligent and healthy and sociable.

you may be a little too focused on something, not sure if finding ways to mask that is necessarily the best route. what's the point of all the other stuff if deep down it seems like you just want someone to fuck?

 

 

you can't get to authentic without work and effort. You want to create shortcuts to authentic communication, which is understandable, as more and more people are taught that the end is the only goal and the means to that end don't matter. In the era of everything you want at your fingertips, you demand instant satisfaction.

If all you want to do is fuck a beautiful woman, get a call girl. Not a 5 dollar rock whore, but a 250 dollar escort. At least you're being honest.

[Guest Adjective]

that too!