plz share experiences with partners past & present
I have discovered:
listen more than you talk,
ask about mundane things,
then ask profound things (this may or may not plz any given lady)
take them places where they can dress for the occasion,
window shop even if you hate it. and get used to buying nothing in art galleries. they will in turn get used to you buying 12 books or records instead of one at the cool store you pretend not to haunt,
movie + dinner is a lame date unless you both love getting high and being weird in public, then it's pretty great,
trim and polish your fingernails ffs,
ask them how they get off when they're alone and follow their lead, cuz just like you, they know how to cum stupid hard, and you have a tongue that can reach farther than theirs,
fingers in the mouth is a more common turn-on than expected,
tell her what you want in every arena of life: your career, your relationship, your feelings for (or against) starting a family, your horniness, your emotional needs, your deepest intellectual fascinations - if she's into you, this will all be crucial information eventually.
don't fail to communicate any of these things, you'll just end up hurting one or both of you. be real.
ok, plz add helpful hints. I know this place is 90+% dudes but ladies pls chime in if you're here and okay with it