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goDel

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  1. It's going to be an Ae goes minecraft album. I can't......wait
  2. I've emboldened my findings. Edit: Can't embolden. Fuck it, look for yourself. Not the f-ing bull thing again =D
  3. Lions, sure. Elephants, perhaps. But babies, no. Couldn't stand those in my zoo. Animals can babysit themselves. Babies can't.
  4. It's about having your own zoo, I'm guessing. I'd also add some snakes, spiders and flamengo's.
  5. what is there to understand. things which have a beginning also have an end. just place yourself on your mental timeline of the history of the cosmos. it'll be a tiny dot which you'll inhabit. you weren't there for the first billion years, and you won't be there for almost the entire rest of the future. what's there to not understand?
  6. I'm interested to hear what it is you are worried about in death. When I first started having panic attacks I didn't know what they were and thought I was dying, and I'm still not nececarily sure if they were purely panic attacks (psychosomatic) or drug-related heart flip-the-fuck-outs. Either way, during those I thought I was dying, these were my last breaths, and I was resigned to death. what worries anyone about death? the idea that all existence as you know it will eventually cease to be i haven't been able to convince myself of a realistic posthumous existence how about accepting it for the way it is? without some sort of supernatural mumbo jumbo.
  7. so you're basically a 24 years old in a body of a 50 years old. old fart.
  8. wander again and see if dogging is something that might cure your ails... RE: goDel ... Thanks for the long post. Really appreciate it. What I don't really understand though, is why you're putting off having a kid with your wife. You say it like it's because of all the fun and freedom you two can still have, and you rationalise it with some research. But that is just silly, imo. How happy are those past 50s people who had been "happier" because they didn't have kids, but now they have come to the conclusion they're unable to still raise some kids. And how good can you measure happiness anyways? Sounds like a questionable study to me. And certainly not one which you should base your decisions on, imo. Personally, I wouldn't search for consolation in studies like that. Biology just doesn't work that way. I could understand it if you would have said that your current financial outlook doesn't allow for you to take responsibility for an extra member to the family. And one which would produce lots of poop, sound and mayhem. And it would be more honest if that was the story you would have told your wife, imo. Sorry to put it so frank and all. But she is your wife. I would think she deserves better than some study. And quite honestly, I don't think she accepts that as an answer even though she may tell you otherwise. Probably your no is enough for her at this point, whatever your reasoning. But there comes a point where she will grow deeply unhappy, and you will feel responsible. If you two haven't reached that point already. That comes from someone who's had one friggin date though. She's already deeply unhappy, and we haven't even started yet. F#cking emotional blackmail. Still no sign from her though. I'm probably going to call her, just to make sure she's ok. I don't know what's going on at her side. She may not even like me. I don't know. Personally, it's still hard to believe she could have liked me anyways, but that's another story.
  9. So, basically you're running away from responsibilities now you're in that part of your life when the biological clocks of the ladies start to tick with the ticking sounds amplified by huge speakers? Oddly I'd just been on a date with one. I really liked her. And still do, btw. But the way she brought the kids stuff to the table really left me grasping for some oxygen. Like she's always there for the kids of her friends. And then she showed some pics and vids on her phone. While subtly mentioning she went to a real rough spot in her life because all her friends had been having kids and she hadn't. I had a real wtf moment when she said that. It felt like emotional blackmail, even if unintended. It was our friggin first date! And the creepy thing is she's 33 and the general idea is that women normally should have kids before 35, because the risks of complications rise enormously after that age. So, obviously that' s something which is on her mind. The fucked up part is I feel she deserves to have some kids and all. And this suddenly puts me in the responsibility seat as well. It was our first date! Well, fu for putting me in that spot after just one date! During the date I was too flabbergasted to say something about it and instead kept the small talk going. The next day we were supposed to go to some museum, but instead I cancelled it with some excuse. But telling her we will be going another time. Which I actually meant. But the thing is, I felt she put me in a spot where continuing dating with her would mean a future with kids. What makes it a bit less creepy is that I do feel she's a victim of her biological clock. Instead of being a psychomaniac. She said she went through a rough spot, but she was obviously still in the middle of it. She almost broke in tears, but kept her composure when she mentioned it. Normally I'm not scared for being a bit frank. But this was a rough point in the conversation. We did have fun though. And there was lots of other stuff. This just put a ticking time bomb under the whole situation.next date will prolly start with a serious conversation. If there is a next. I haven't heard from her after canceling the museum trip. Which was 2 days ago. Anyways, my 2 cents for life being a crazy ass fucking disaster trip. No time for a leather jacket though.
  10. premature midlife crisis, or just post-puberty teenage angst?
  11. How about a midwife crisis? It's good to know there's going to be another one!
  12. So you won't be getting much older than 60, eh?
  13. *ignores unpopular opinion* Great release. "Open the Dark" is wicked. Game on.
  14. Seems to me they were pretty expliciet about it not being any type of prequel. They didn't put themselves in the box they've been put into.
  15. Yes, that's my favorite as well. And it really sticks to the brain as well. I've been hearing them all day.
  16. I share the sentiments, but they DID release all those Analords digitally with some extras. *ordered new JK*
  17. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5uRkv_wv9qE
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